ok~~ i know some of you miss me.. awwwwwwwww... so sweet of you girls.. u want me to update stuff in my blog.. but! i couldn't think of a specific topic here.. hrmmmmm... *brainstorming* ok.. about my life larh of course kn.. let me pick on anything that happened recently.. ouh yeahhhh!!! this thing.. i should share it with you people so that you can learn from my mistake..
alrighty... lets get it started..but wait.. where to start.. *still thinking*
ok! i have friends with me.. (of course larh kn) and what i did recently had caused some hurt feelings.. ermmmmm.. i think i should be open with you people or else how are suppose to understand kn?
my friend and i had organized a birthday DINNER for another friend of mine... its a super small dinner and only few people we invite... its not that we don't wanna invite EVERYONE.. but! we don't have any budget.. and come to think of it.. how do you expect to squeeze in hundreds of people in Gardens? that's why we end up with only..ermmm.. less than 10... so.. some who are not invited are a bit upset in a way that "how could i not include them in the list" ok.. in this case.. yes.. its my fault..but things are done and yeah.. its done..
bak kata pepatah melayu... lepas rumah siap... *ape benda ntah* mula berbunyi.. this time larh i discover that i've hurt some of my friends.. its roughly around 3 people (ramai ok).. thanks to MR.S who gve me that silent treatment... and i realised it.. and i talked to each and everyone of them... ok...
lesson from my mistake: friendship is really important... its actually a journey... you don't wanna end your journey alone right? you want it to be the best finale that you'll ever experience.. but somehow.. along the way.. you will hurt their feelings.. be it..on purpose or you don't even realise it.. in this matter.. we'll have to be a little bit more sensitive... if you have to decide on something.. think of other people's feelings as well.. put yourself in their shoe.. and2.. highlight here... even if you know that person for like 6-7 years.. or more! please.. don't take them for granted... value and respect them... they ARE your true friend.. they can stick with you throughout those years.. and they bare with all your attitude.. they help you out through thick and thin.. so.. isn't that clear enough? and actually true friends are the one who will be with you along your journey... filling it with laughter, fun, and even tears..
so how do you deal with this problem... most important thing of all.. YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE... its not good you know to just keep it to yourself and pretend as if nothing happened.. come clean.. if you're the OFFENDER... go and apologize.. leave your whatever crap ego behind.. you made a mistake this time.. explain whatever that need to be explained.. but i don't think trying to escape from your problem by saying you're not guilty is a smart choice here.. be true to yourself.. if you did wrong..admit it...what the fuss is all about? just admit it larh... then .. to the other party... you have to communicate as well.. tell the other person.. what is the thing that she did offended you the most.. well at least provide her the opportunity to change and become a better person...
i might be talking crap now.. but i just want you people to think and learn.. sorry if i hurt anyone's feeling along my journey...
alrighty... lets get it started..but wait.. where to start.. *still thinking*
ok! i have friends with me.. (of course larh kn) and what i did recently had caused some hurt feelings.. ermmmmm.. i think i should be open with you people or else how are suppose to understand kn?
my friend and i had organized a birthday DINNER for another friend of mine... its a super small dinner and only few people we invite... its not that we don't wanna invite EVERYONE.. but! we don't have any budget.. and come to think of it.. how do you expect to squeeze in hundreds of people in Gardens? that's why we end up with only..ermmm.. less than 10... so.. some who are not invited are a bit upset in a way that "how could i not include them in the list" ok.. in this case.. yes.. its my fault..but things are done and yeah.. its done..
bak kata pepatah melayu... lepas rumah siap... *ape benda ntah* mula berbunyi.. this time larh i discover that i've hurt some of my friends.. its roughly around 3 people (ramai ok).. thanks to MR.S who gve me that silent treatment... and i realised it.. and i talked to each and everyone of them... ok...
lesson from my mistake: friendship is really important... its actually a journey... you don't wanna end your journey alone right? you want it to be the best finale that you'll ever experience.. but somehow.. along the way.. you will hurt their feelings.. be it..on purpose or you don't even realise it.. in this matter.. we'll have to be a little bit more sensitive... if you have to decide on something.. think of other people's feelings as well.. put yourself in their shoe.. and2.. highlight here... even if you know that person for like 6-7 years.. or more! please.. don't take them for granted... value and respect them... they ARE your true friend.. they can stick with you throughout those years.. and they bare with all your attitude.. they help you out through thick and thin.. so.. isn't that clear enough? and actually true friends are the one who will be with you along your journey... filling it with laughter, fun, and even tears..
so how do you deal with this problem... most important thing of all.. YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE... its not good you know to just keep it to yourself and pretend as if nothing happened.. come clean.. if you're the OFFENDER... go and apologize.. leave your whatever crap ego behind.. you made a mistake this time.. explain whatever that need to be explained.. but i don't think trying to escape from your problem by saying you're not guilty is a smart choice here.. be true to yourself.. if you did wrong..admit it...what the fuss is all about? just admit it larh... then .. to the other party... you have to communicate as well.. tell the other person.. what is the thing that she did offended you the most.. well at least provide her the opportunity to change and become a better person...
i might be talking crap now.. but i just want you people to think and learn.. sorry if i hurt anyone's feeling along my journey...
Lots of xoxo,
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